Tiger Woods infidelity

Tiger Woods infidelity case has been featured on the cover of the New York Post for 16 consecutive days; three more days & he will tie 9/11. Many may wonder what is the hype that has forced all of mainstream media to ignite this as one of the largest headlined stories of the past decade. Is it our obsession with celebrities and their downfalls? Or is it something more, perhaps, that, for many, hits close to home? Are we afraid of the “technology bug” telling our secrets? As suspects begin to arise & more evidence is disclosed in the Tiger Woods cheating case, it leads many of our readers to stop and wonder; both curious about this case as well as their own marital issues.

The more we read about the Tiger Woods case, the more we learn of the hidden life Woods led.   Thirty-three year old Tiger Woods admitted his affair last week to his wife, Elin Nordegren.  After admitting his infidelity, allegations of multiple extramarital affairs have become public knowledge.

Readers, stop to think about both sides of this situation.  We live in a technologically advanced society, where data (blackberries, emails, phones), and vehicles can all be tracked to keep up with the cheaters every next move.  It may even be surprising that for so long Tiger Woods kept this all a secret.  Along with this, the reader is left wondering why do the famous cheat? And are their motives different than the average folk?  It has been said that, “Many therapists say infidelity depends on the motive involved in the affair.  For instance, cheating that is motivated by a partner’s desire to avoid conflict with a spouse can be an unconscious way of forcing unspoken tensions and disputes out in the open; marriages stand a relatively good chance of recovering after such an affair. On the other hand, an “exit affair,” which is motivated by a partner’s decision to quit the marriage, is more difficult to overcome.”

Do you believe a spouse should make every effort to save their infidelity? Or should they choose to separate instead of be ridiculed by the public and for their own peace of mind?  Under what circumstances do you the reader believe that a cheating spouse deserves a second chance? Let our private investigators know what you think today.